Hi there,
My name is Thomas and my heart is to inspire and teach people on how to be a man. The problem is I’m learning too. My journey started when my my wife decided that our marriage wasn’t worth trying to save. My life was turned upside down. I had to look at what happened. After 20 years of marriage and 5 kids why am I not worth being married to anymore. The truth was hard to swallow. I wasn’t acting like a man. I didn’t have any passion, no back bone, and was draining away her emotional energy. I realized that even though I was 41 years old I hadn’t learned how to be a man. Not a jerk or a misogynistic pig but a real man. One that could provide leadership and a safe place for his family to grow and thrive. I’m not a writer so there will be bad grammar, words spelled incorrectly (or the right spelling for the wrong word), and all the things my high school English teacher would mark in red. But if you stay and read maybe, just maybe, we could figure out together what it means to be a real man together.